Grannie Ennui ISO Direction. Me: 30-something, prone to entertaining myself by quilting on a Saturday night. No children. The only bars I like to frequent are gay bars, where none of the men are looking at me. Decent cook, offbeat sense of humor, financially sound. Tied up in the strangest of bizarre separations/divorces/marriages. No long term prospects with me, but a girl has to keep herself entertained somehow, no? You: Whatever you want to be, just don’t leave me feeling pointless.